Separated yet living together in self-isolation …or ‘One time in your life you could really do with some social distance’

Thanks to a tweet from Annie and Lucy I had a sudden shudderingly awful recollection. Living together when you’re separated is horrible. So what about now when you’re having to self-isolate? It’s bad enough living in the same space for 14 … Continue reading Separated yet living together in self-isolation …or ‘One time in your life you could really do with some social distance’

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Surviving Separation and Divorce – coming soon, to a bookshop near you…

Surviving Separation and Divorce Yep. A real, actual book, with my name on the cover. It’s been 7 years in the experiencing, thinking, writing, editing and printing – and now it’s almost in my, or your, hands. As far as … Continue reading Surviving Separation and Divorce – coming soon, to a bookshop near you…

A-Z of Divorce: W is for… Weddings

‘Here’s what you could’ve won!’ A classic Bullseye catchphrase and precisely how it feels when you attend a wedding as a newly separated person, a divorcing person, or a divorced person. Choosing to go to someone else’s wedding can be … Continue reading A-Z of Divorce: W is for… Weddings

A-Z of Divorce: T is for…Thoughts

“Be transformed by the renewal of your mind…” Believe in the Bible or not, in the realignment of your thought processes there is great opportunity for change. Our thought patterns come unbidden to our brains. Like Pavlov’s famous dogs, our … Continue reading A-Z of Divorce: T is for…Thoughts

A-Z of Divorce: P is for…Possibilities

Divorces are a series of painfully unending endings. Relationships, experiences, dreams and plans come to conclusions in different ways that are hard to stomach. Not only does your marriage end, but you find other tiny endings along the way. Little … Continue reading A-Z of Divorce: P is for…Possibilities